Oh hell Paul, All I did was ask a question.I can't reply to this post of yours, I'd like to, but I can't.
Why?
You keep playing therapist.
You are NOT a therapist.
You are also not a Martyr. Stop writing like one.
Your seemingly constant guessing as to what is going on in the minds of the people whose posts you reply to is probably what makes you so bloody unpopular, probably because you're usually wrong.
In future stick to second-guessing yourself, please.