Posted by smokelove , Jan 16,2007,10:14 | Post Reply | Top of Thread | Forum |
And when finally I sucumbed to my mother's encoragement , she was proud. And thrilled when I started dating early and always to girls that smoked.
She sometimes moans that I haven't produced her grandchildren; but she is still very proud I have always had really stunning girlfriends.
Smoking was, and remains, part of sexual courtship for those daring enough to do it. I would argue my mother gave me a head start on other kids in the neighborhood. Because nothing makes a young lad more popular with the girls than a pack of cigarettes.
And the thing is I know she still sneakily likes the idea that I am atractive to women, and that as she often says still, I look sexy smoking.
Is she a bad mum? Absolutely not. I wanted for nothing as a child.There is omething seriously wrong with a society that would vilify her and other mothers to whom smoking is a completely normal behaviour.
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