Thaddaeus, I looked into the sexyboards site and posted a few there. I sound like a naive kid, but well, this is new to me, I mean expressing thoughts that I am not sure I'm comfortable with. Funny, I'm not attracted to most smokers....only my sexy drummer guy. Guess it's like Michael C. said....you are attracted to the person for all the other reasons, first, then the fetish is an additional (but STRONG) attraction. Anyway, I do want to learn more about this, as it is becoming a major pleasure for me, along with my strong guy's helpless eyes in glasses!