As for me it was pretty easy to have my wife smoke for me because she was already a social smoker to begin with. The difficult part was asking her to smoke during sex. Now that I have had smoking sex for about 3 years I can say that I do enjoy it very much, at the same time I sometimes feel that it is an inconvenience for her. The addiction aspect of the fetish is important to me and knowing that the woman enjoys/needs smoking is a large part of the fantasy for me. For my wife it is physically impossible to become addicted to nicotine, I don't know why. I have talked to her about this and she says that she has no problems with smoking for me and, it makes her feel good that she is turning me on, which turns her on.

Now I doubt that she really gets much enjoyment from the smoking but, it gets me going and I guess that's good enough for her and me. It's a weird thing really...