I decided a couple of relationships ago that to hide my fetish was not in by best interests, for several reasons which I won't go into in this post.

My dilema is though, how long should I wait before telling her about my fetish?

I have already decided that, when (not if) I tell her that she will get the t-r-u-t-h, the whole t-r-u-t-h and nothing but the t-r-u-t-h, however difficult that may be for me. If that gives her reason to end our time together, then it was never meant to be and I'll be happy to leave it at that.

Unfortunately the two previous experiences that I have of telling girlfriends about my fetish don't really apply here as one found out by going though my internet and msn chat history, and the other I had known for years before dating her, and letting her know.

General discussion, advice and/or sharing of personal experiences would be most welcome.

Thanks