Yah know, discussion on commercial porn brings up an interesting intersection of ideas. I hope the actresses and actors that make these vids get to get off like real porn stars can do. While some porn starlets just put on a good show, we know others like Annie Sprinkle are cool enough that they can "cum for the camera. That makes them infinitely cooler, in my book.One pervy place where you see kinky sex triumph over money and commercialism are the "hotwife sites". Couples (hetero) get a voyeuristic thrill out of having the female have sex with another guy for the mutual sexual pleasure of the couple. The female gets off on variety, extra attention, naughtiness. The husband / boyfriend gets off on how sexual his wife is. The husband / boyfriend is often present to photograph the encounter and often gets off after the wife's lover is spent. The couple then puts the photos and story of the encounter on the web for all to see. Sometimes faces are blacked out, often they are not.
I find these sites and couples to be very exciting. These are average people who don't hide their sexuality behind the profit motive. They break taboo about fidelity, jealousy, and modesty. They never discuss it, but it's extremely political. American Sexuality has been comodified - not just women like the 1970s feminists still claim. Sex goes mostly to the great looking, the rich, and the powerful. That leaves most of us wanting more than we should, and leaves "traditional arrangements" looking good in comparison to much of the current market place.
Hot Couples offer their audience the one thing commercial ventures and traditional relationships can not – possibility how ever large or small that the view might become a participant. That hasn’t happened to me yet, but I haven’t made any effort either. Hot Couples blow open the closed world of swingers where single guys are not welcome. It recognizes the reality that unfortunately many women are turned off to sex and many women use sex for other ends. Trust and true partnership are a prerequisite for this kind of relationship – these couples deserve our support and encouragement.
See them at:
http://bbs.bianca.com/mforums/h/hotwives/
Perve On!
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