Absolutely good buddy. Especially since most of us have had it since we were very young.Actually, one of my first hints that there were "others" was from a letter to penthouse about the same time they were running the "O Wicked Wanda" comic strip. They got a letter from some dude in search of a woman who wanted to use his "member" to put out her cigarettes (below the letter as a caption, Penthouse displayed a picture of an erect penis coming out of an ashtray with the hand of a woman with long nails touching her lit cigarette to the tip of that penis).
Other indications that I was not alone with the smoking fetish before discovering the internet:
1). On a double date with my girlfriend Janice and a male friend of hers and his date (late 1970s or early 80s). His girlfriend (a fashion model) smoked Newports and for no apparant reason turned to him and blew smoke in his face. He acted annoyed, but I always wondered if he was doing so for Janice and my sake. There was just no apparant reason why she delibertly turned towards him and exhaled right into his face (I didn't have the nerve to ask about it, but I was hoping Janice would imitate her as she smoked one of the many Marlboros she smoked in a typical day.....she did not and the most smoke I tasted from her was in the form of her kisses. No deliberate smokey ones, but I was good at timing them as to get inadverdent smokey kisses)
2). Another girlfriend of mine from the late 80s (Cathy, remember her James? :) had a close friend named Judy who used to hang out with us often. One day Judy had told us of an accident she had been in a while back. She was on a blind date and the guy was driving and while Judy was lighting a cigarette, he took his eyes of the road and according to Judy was mesmorized by her lighting her cigarette.....and plowed into a car stopped in front of them. I can't say that I blame her, but the shock and the way she mocked that guy when telling us the story, is one reason I have probably never had the nerve to tell any of my former girlfriends of my smoking fetish.
And a couple of indications that some women like using their cigarettes in their sexual gratification.
1). the two sexy women in the 80s who tried to pick me up at a club as they both dug a spiked heel into my feet as one flicked an ash at me and the other blew smoke in my face.......I've posted that story here. I would have loved to join them but could not bring myself to ditching my girlfriend who was in the ladies room at that time (she broke up with me about a week later).
2). And of course when I was 4 (I'll let you all guess how long ago that was) the lady responsable for my fetish who physically and sexually abused me......she used her cigarettes promanently in that regard)
