Hey fellow sexxx freaks :>>do you need a plot or just action to fuel your own fantasies when you >watch a fetish video??
I like a plot. Also, like IRL plots... brings in the voyerism thing... you get to be "in on the action" rather than a target market.
I have long enjoyed the "wicked wanda" motiff. One of its major elements is an extremely attractive and sexually experienced woman. It is implied that she is oversex as she is not seeking more. Yet she amuses herself by seeing how much pain & humilation men will endure to be sexual in her presence. She is ultimately sympathic for she has no desire to orgasm, she will after some price is paid allow her male fans to get off. With out sexual needs, the fem dom is in the drivers seat. Thus the tokens of power (ie. floggers, cigarette holders that resemble scepters, throne-like chairs).
Why not use the plot to explain what motivates the fem dom's willingness to fulfil men's needs? Most common is money - but if she's good and attractive that's easy. Sadism - an obvious element. What about some additional motive?
Altruism or self-obession? Perhaps, we want her to be either loved or hated, right? How about something more profound - a need to be adored.
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Lately, I've been checking out a lot of "hot wife" sights. I like these because they aim for a certain about of sleeze. These are married or at least committed couples where both partners want to get the wife fxcked by a third party. The husband gets a thrill out of how sexual his wife is! They both get a thrill out of breaking "marriage vows" together. It's nice because it's an expression of trust and it shares sex. Again there is voyerism, too.
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Why not lair the "smoking fem dom" w/ the "hot wife"? Take a swinging hotwife couple and a fem dom and sub boy and throw them together. Let's say the sub boy is a slut and the hot wife is too. The fem dom answers a net ad so that she can sex her sub boy (being the good sub boy he is). While the husband and the fem dom watch the hotwife and the sub boy go at it, the husband becomes arroused and tempts the smoking fem dom. She is angered by this and restrains him and uses his mouth as an ashtray until the sub boy climaxes inside the hotwife.
The fem dom then sets matters straight by enforcing the hotwife's expectations by "driving" the performance of the husband as he takes his rightful "sloppy seconds".
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I'd also like to take a crack at explaining why the smoking fem dom enjoys smoking so much? I see her punkrock, drug taking teenage rebellion cut short and her thrown into a repressive fudamentalist boarding school. She suffers periodic sever nicotine withdrawal, combined with binging when she can. She of course learns BDSM from the twisted headmaster, but is rescued by her beloved Aunt the fem dom opera singer (appologies to Pat Califia on that one). The freedom to smoke, is equated with sexual and all other freedom in this plotline.
Well, that's all off the cuff. Let's see what we can all come up with this weekend.
j2
