I have a real infactution with pierced and tattooed women who smoke. Don't ask me where it came from but when I first met my wife we were both very vanilla, straight and quite shy. I rarely smoked in those days and was very much in the closet as a smoker, she had never smoked. Over the years and with a little encouragement from me she has transformed into a dyed platinum blond high haired, high heeled, pierced and tattooed beauty who takes great pleasure in smoking openly and as sexy as possible. She also tends to change her hair colour and style every so often. This has been a huge turn around as at the start she wouldn't even wear clothes that were remotely revealing and our circle of friends tended to be very straight, a little snobby, conservative and very much anti smoking.
Our transformation was never planned or intended and seemed to start one night we were out in a bar with friends having a drink. A friend lit up a smoke and to everybody's amazement at the table my wife (girlfriend at the time) asked could she have one. While the usual comments of " Why? You don't smoke, what are you doing?" were raised and she answered "Oh I don't know I have been thinking about starting for a while now" I immediately got a hard on. She never did take up smoking after that night but I was immediately smitten and determined to see her start.
It's been a long journey which has taken 22 years and has only really gathered momemtum in the last couple of years but it's been worth it.
I started smoking around her more and eventually she progressed from the odd pull and smoky kiss to fully fledged sexy smoker. At the start her thing was to stand on front of a mirror posing while smoking, practising her technique and admiring how sexy she looked.
As time passed she never gave in easy and would need a lot of convincing. Anything I suggested she do she would always answer that it wasn't her style or she was too shy etc....The more she refused the more it seemed to become a fetish/fantasy with me and I think she knew this as she had convinced me to have streaked blond hair, piercings and tattoos before she ever got them. Her problem was that she never liked to be the first and was influenced by the circle of friends we used to hang around with. When she was in conservative company she tended to be conservative but as the journey continued and we met new friends who tended to be a little more outgoing she tended to respond to her surrondings.
Things have certainly changed from those early days. My once accountant wife is now the part owner and operator of a large franchise hair salon and on any given day you could drive by there around 11am and 3pm and see her standing outside having a cup of coffee and a smoke beautifully adorned in a short mini and high heels with her ankle, hip, navel, clevage, upper arm, shoulder tattoos and her navel, labret, nose, madonna, tongue and mutiple ear piercings. She has also a number of other private piercings.
As for me, well I'm an apprentice hairdresser at the salon (lifestyle chioce) attending night school to get my formal qualifications. My mostly teenage class mates think it's a bit odd that a 40 year old man is an apprentice hairdresser but I seem to fit right in with my long dyed hair, piercings and tattoos. Of course breaks between classes always involve a rush for the door to light up a smoke.
We lead a fairly normal life and are both good parents. Our social life is quite active and when we go out with certain friends (especially workmates) we fit right in as smoking, piercings, hairdyes and tattoos are the norm. But it's always a laugh when we go out with our main circle of friends who are quite conservative. They are very good humoured about it and keep commenting how we look like two overgrown teenagers rebelling. I suppose it does look funny to them when they see me walking in with heavily streaked long blond hair, piercings and tattoos (former conservative sales manager turned hairdresser) and my wife beside me tottering along in her high heels with high platinum blond hair, piercings and tattoos while smoking a long all white cigarette.
My wife has never had so much attention from her friend's husbands and it's always funny to see their reaction when one of their husbands offer to light my wife's cigarette or even except one themselves while they are flirting with her. A few of her girlfriends will now have the odd cigarette when we are out and one of them even turned up with her own pack recently. My wife seems to now take great pleasure in transforming others and is currently encouraging one of her friends to get a tattoo after this friend secretly expressed a slight interest in them. I mentioned it to her husband recently and he thinks it's a great idea and is now also encouraging her to get one.
Our private life has never been better as smoking and exploration is always part of the fun and games. In the last 18 months or so as her confidence has grown my wife now seems to be the more risque of both of us. She often encourages me to try new hairstyles, colours, piercings and tattoos and has even talked me into wearing make up, long nails, high heels and collars etc.. as she takes on the role of smoke mistress for a bit of fun. I always participate with her suggestions but it seems the fun and games become the norm after a while as last week I wore black eyeliner to work for the first time and my fashion sense at times can be a little andrgynous.
Her cigarette of choice is St Moritz, More menthol, Vogue and the all white Cartier and she always carries them in a silver cigarette case with a silver lighter. She often smokes non filters with a holder and has tried roll ups. She often smokes cigars on special occasions such as weddings, award nights etc...
It seems after developing these fetishes and fantasies over the years that we have somehow arrived and I couldn't be happier. I know my wife is happy, excited and passionate about the lifestyle we lead and we are still madly in love. With our healthy appetite for browsing the internet together and our ever increasing circle of "alternative" friends I am sure it will never be boring.