Jessica, while you and the other guys are having fun, Jason is having a problem. The last thing he needs is someone to be enjoyng this. I would tell him about the fetish and perhaps when this post is way down or off the list, tell him about these boards. If he has a gf that smokes I would let him or her know you would allow it. This is a tender moment. If not handled right, Jason will have problems. Handled properly Jason will grow out of his fetish or into with the right woman. Take care of your son and have fun with an older man.
