I used to drop by ******Vesperae's Message Board on occasion, but had to quit. Guys would go there and bare their souls about the anguish that the SF was causing them. We're not talking about people with minor problems, we're talking anout people carrying around so much guilt it's a wonder they could get out of bed in the morning and attempt to lead a normal existence. I was routinely floored by what I read.As for Marc91 thinking that guys who don't smoke should feel guilty about watching women who do, as we said earlier, that's basically the mind-bender to end all mind-benders. No offense intended toward M91, but if someone's mind reasons in those sorts of patterns, they need to see about finding some help.
As far as the way we "tick", you and I are definitely worlds apart. I couldn't be married to a woman and hide something this big (the SF) from her. Sorry, man, just couldn't do it. Never would be able to live with myself. It would be like leading a double life. I wouldn't want to walk in your shoes for even a day. I couldn't live like that.
