Go back and read your original message. You told Thaddy he was "messed up, totally messed up". The you go on to say you wish Thaddy was tiny so you could "kick his asse and stomp on his butt". That is NOT "just starting a conversation". Nor is that "our misunderstanding".
If I were you, I'd reconsider that post and consider and apology or just go find some place else to heckle people.