I agree. It is ridiculous to leave your wife because a girl smokes and your wife doesn't. I'm in the same boat. My wife don't smoke and don't know about my fetish but I manage to "easy:" the agony by living my normal 9-5 life, spending nights with my wife and telling her, a couple times a month, I'm going out for a couple drinks with the "guys". In reality I'll go out myself to a couple local gentlemen's clubs or dance clubs and have a couple drinks. I then can make conversation with a dancer, taking a break, who smokes and ask her to blow smoke in my face. I've never been shot down. I've heard things like, "That's so cute." and "Oh my god, that's the first time anyone's asked me to do that to them, hahaha." This way I can sooth my fetish nd live my life without making mistakes I will regret.
