For a woman that you are dating, this is what has worked for me.

I don't smoke so I would say what I said above. I have found that women can be very reluctant at first but more willing to share their illegal smoke with you. If you are into that it can be a good gateway to get her to blow her cigarette smoke at you by telling her how great it smells when you are inebreated.

One thing that has worked well has been to take her to a middle eastern restaurant that has Hookahs. Hookah smoke is very mellow and fruity so it smells great. It's also pretty thick. THe first time I want to a hookah bar, the first women I saw smoking was blowing every drag into her dates face much to my delight.