I agree with you Angie....however, it is totally understandable that a pretty "young" lady is going to create a rise on many fronts with some or even most gentleman. It's a fact of life that a pretty face or body is going to turn heads.....what men do about that is their business. The fetish has many different 'avenues' and this is one of those.....lung damage is another, the dark side...getting into subs and doms, so many different things that are explored. One of the things that you will have to accept is that each of these is different and because you don't have the fetish may never be able to fully accept. So either you accept this fact or you don't.....but to berate them for it is unacceptable and uncalled for. Porn...is accepted, using children is not.......there is a law that protects children from smoking...so a line is being crossed when using them in videos. We all know that these video's are being used and sold for self gratification.......so is it worse than watching a NUDE child? I'm asking, not accusing here. So input is very welcome...I'd like to hear and understand the other side of this issue.