Fortunately I believe you're safe, Tampa... and Rodney, too... by extension, I'm sure.

I don't have your abilities with humor... I think much of it is that all that gender stuff in my twenties just kinda shuffled most of that usual rigidity about being and acting 'male' out of me.

Whether I'm kinda sorta just another guy now... I'll never be the same. I suppose I'm saying that much has been created, but something's been lost too.